No, I don’t have life insurance !

by Simone Imurah

I am a 41 year old single female . That’s how my family sees me. They don’t see the great interesting person that I am.

I am not looking for Mr Right or Charming Prince… I am not looking for a relationship neither I am asexual. I just believe that some things happen naturally. Life is so difficult sometimes why do we complicate it even more?

I am an explorer, an adventurer ! Focuses my attention in search for the perfect relationship would make my life so limited. I love freedom and being among strangers, exploring places, learning, experiencing, living! I don’t know many women like me – I am lucky to know a few – but certainly I am the only one I know whose family is more worried about my life insurance than if I am Happy!

I can’t imagine myself being married when I meet family and married friends… their talks is just about complaining… complaining about the lack of time, too much work, lack of work, money, kids … and I just listen… I am not allowed to give my opinion because I am not part of this group… I just listen their complaints and still they think that they are better than me.

I eat when I am hungry, wash the dishes when I want – or need – read whenever I feel like, go out when I want… I have time to see the sunset and the sunrise even when I’m driving, I feel the wind on my face and smile, I work in…